前幾天消失了一陣子,請格友們見諒!一直想做點有意義的事,於是向公司請了無薪假,一個人前往三峽「閉關」了五天,到「天南寺」當義工去了~~五天裡,雖沒有電腦、沒有隨時可買東西耗溝的7-11、不能去唱K、無法找朋友逛街、少了可以哈拉的你們,但日子卻非常得樸質踏實自在。
I’m so sorry my dear blogger friends about disappearing for a couple of days. I’d been thinking to do something meaningful before I had this idea actually carried out and went to San-Shia for a 5-day “retreat” after getting my un-paid leaves I applied from my company. Tien-Nan Temple was where I spent the past 5 days on a voluntary mission, during which, though having no access to any computer or chances to grab snacks in 7-11s, not being able to sing songs in KTV, no friends to hang out with, I led a life of simplicity, enrichment, and freeness.
「天南寺」是法鼓山佛教體系在台北三峽的分院,雖沒有金山的本院來得大,不過一樣是風景秀麗、莊嚴和修行的好所在,有小法鼓山之稱。
“ Tien-Nan Temple ”, located in San-Shia Township , Taipei , is a branch belonging to Dharma Drum Mountain (DDM) Buddhist Association. Smaller in area than its headquarter in Jin-San, Tien-Nan Temple , also known as the epitome of DDM, is relatively picturesque, magnificent, and proper for self-cultivation.
「天南寺」才成立一年左右,大致的建設都已就序,而目前尚有少許部份還在施工或籌劃當中。寺裡的法師不多,每位都非常慈悲。會選擇「天南寺」主要因為我喜愛寺宇的清幽寧靜,「天南寺」正是這種好地方,同時它目前也需要許多義工菩薩前來佈施付出,藉此我也可沈澱自己,並為「三寶(佛教三寶指:諸佛、佛法、僧眾)」貢獻己力。前些日子日本大地震更堅定我這義工心念,向菩薩應許,會將當義工的所有功德,迴向給日本的的災民,希望每人都平安。
It’s just been a year or so since Tien-Nan Temple was established. Most of its infrastructures have been nearly settled down, but still there are some of its accessories being under construction or planned. There are only a small number of DDM’s monastery dwelling in the Temple , all of whom are kind and compassionate. The reason why I chose Tien-Nan Temple for the above purpose was that peaceful and serene places are always attempting to me, and the Temple happens to be the very one where I could make the most of my stay there to settle myself as well as make contributions to the Three Jewels (in Buddhism, the Three Jewels refer to as the Buddha, the Buddhist Scriptures, and the Monastery). In the meantime, many a devoted volunteer is still wanted to help build the surroundings of the Temple better. It was quite shocking to me when I learned of the killing earthquake hitting Japan not long ago, and thus I made a petition to the Bodhisattva for the dedication of the merits which I would accumulate from the mission for the victims of the earthquake, wishing that everyone would be fine.
義工師姐們的素菜超級好吃 The vegetarian food made by those female volunteers are super yummy.
和 常哲法師聯絡上後,二十號晚就到寺裡掛單啦!接下來的五天,開始過著早上四點半就得起床、一同做早晚課、白天則出坡工作、晚上九點半打板就寢的「修行」生活。我的工作主要由 常哲法師分配,就如同雜役一般什麼都要去學去做:幫忙義工師兄們在山上搬重達 十八公斤 的石板鋪禪修步道、挑磚塊、鏟土、灑水、掃托地、搞電線線路、油漆粉刷、園藝…等。在這裡每個人都得放下身段,你不再是大企業家、不再是學校教授、不再是光鮮亮麗的空姐空少,你只是個學習如何心態柔軟及負責的熱血義工。
I firstly contacted Master Chang-Zhe before I checked in the Temple on the 20th. For the following 5 days in a row, it was imperative that I follow the routine Buddhist schedule to get up at around 4:30am, do the chants with other Buddhist masters in the morning and evening, work in the day, and go to bed at 9:30pm. My jobs were mainly assigned by Master Chang-Zhe. Like an odd-job man, I needed to learn and do whatever I was offered, including helping other male volunteers move stone planks (each weighs about 18 kilos) for paving the Zen Practice paths, carrying bricks, shoveling soils, sprinkling water and sweeping the dirt, wiring task, painting the walls, gardening, etc. Here, no matter what you are-an enterpriser, a college professor, a decently-dressed flight attendant, or whatever-everyone needs to get off his high horse and learn to be a humble and responsible volunteer wholeheartedly.
他們都是發心的義工喔! (當然不只這些) They are all devoted volunteers. (of course there are more)
常哲法師指導我如何在工作中行禪,再加上心裡的這份願,工作再累、手腳再酸痛都感到自在喜悅,依然活力十足。
Master Chang-Zhe taught me how to put my mind to Zen when I did heavy tasks. The Zen practice together with the petition I made kept deeply in mind made me joyful and energetic at work in spite of being very tired or feeling pain in hands and legs.
常學法師第一天看到我時給我一句話:「把握因緣」。這五天我一直謹記在心,累了想到這句話就不敢停下腳步。佛教說因緣,要有好緣現前是相當難得的事,行善要即時,機會稍縱即逝,無常如影隨行,很多人隨便一個不注意就上氣不接地走了;之前在醫院當義工時也聽到不少癌末或病危的病友說好了之後也要和我們一起做,我們心裡暗想這對他們可能只是個「夢想」,但還是會給他們加油打氣。很多人連想做善事的機會都沒有,所以趁身體好時就可隨時找時間做有意義且讓自己福慧滋長的事來做。
Master Chang-Xue presented me with a word on my first day here, “Cherish the good causes.” I kept this word all the time and called it to mind when tired. Cause and Condition are the core of Buddhism. It’s not easy to encounter a good cause, so we all have to join charity work in time because good causes vanish into thin air quickly whenever they’re ignored. We should all realize that impermanence is never far away and it may claim our lives unexpectedly. I used to work as a volunteer in hospitals and I heard many patients with terminal cancers or critical illnesses vow they would join us if they restored to health. Knowing that it’s more likely to be a “dream” to them, I still tried my best to cheer them up. From such case, a number of us get few or even no chances to do good deeds; therefore, in order to have a meaningful life and gain blessings, we’d better learn to give selfishly when we’re well.
感恩「天南寺」 常哲法師給常度(我皈依聖嚴法師時的法名)植福田和行願的機會,感恩其他法師們的法語和照顧,感恩師兄姐們的發心,感恩友人Steven的開車接送。與其說做義工是無私貢獻己力的付出,倒不如說它讓我上了一堂免費、且非常豐富有意義的人生課程。希望格友們若時間允許,也可以一同加入義工/志工的行列;只要有心,哪裡都可以找到義工/志工的工作(如到醫院或寺宇、教會及網路上詢問、亦或參與地方的資源回收工作等)。
I am so much grateful to Master Chang-Ze of the Temple for offering me this valuable opportunity to cultivate the field of blessings and to fulfill my wish. Also, many thanks to other masters for sharing me the words of wisdom and cares, to all the devoted volunteers, and to my good friend, Steven, who gave me a ride to and from Tien-Nan Temple . Doing volunteer jobs can be viewed as a way to enrich our lives and spirits more than simply as a work contributed unselfishly. If time permits, everyone is highly suggested to participate in any charity-related volunteer work. As long as you are determined, you can always find a suitable one for you (you may inquire from hospitals, temples, or the Internet. Or you may join the recycling work in local neighborhood.)
天南寺部落格 Blog about Tien-Nan Temple: http://ddmtn.blogspot.com/

真素不好意思柳~~~^^
真有妳的~珍
看完小夫這篇文,真得心生慚愧~~也很敬佩小夫這種大菩薩精神,願意放下身段做了5天義工,真得很不簡單~~ 你提到的"行善要即時,機會稍縱即逝,無常如影隨行"真得很有感觸,真得要跟你學習把握每個當下,我想,這幾天在天南寺的 義工生活,雖然很累,但我相信你的心裡是充滿法喜的~~~慈悲的小夫啊~~你真得是太棒了拉,真得要跟你學習拉~~ 這天南寺道場,真得是環境清優~~~晚上的夜景也很不錯耶,住在這裡幾天,真得會讓人心生喜悅喔~~~感恩小夫的分享~~
呵~~不要這麼說, 就是做想做的, 該做的罷了! 而且義工或志工的工作真的要大家一起來發心才能造就一股強大的善力, 看到很多其他的人都非常用心, 我才五天, 真的不夠. 真的呀珍~~非常法喜充滿, 我不慈悲, 法師們和師兄姐們比較慈悲啦, 我只是其中一個小小的幫忙的而已, 但從他們的身上我卻學到很多東西! 天南寺真的很棒說, 環境美, 那個夜景呀, 我還是在大風中找個台架固定住來拍的柳~~~美吧....嘻~~~有空我還想要去天南寺看看~~謝謝尊
天阿...原來小夫也會去閉關ㄚ? 真佩服...原來你也是性情中人呢!! 叫我閉關...可能會悶壞了...:) 我最喜歡小夫那張手上拿磚頭的照片ㄌㄟ...超有fu的ㄟ...
嘻~~偶爾還是要去閉一下啦, 畢竟俗世生活還是會有不少紛擾和產生不好的習氣, 過個幾天清靜的生活不但可以讓自我好好沈澱一番, 更可以讓內外有所成長~~不錯的柳阿悸!
希望今年暑假可以當義工喔~~~~~~~~~~~~ 想很好幾年了呢 :)
只要有心, 妳可以的妹子~~~當志工真的要因緣俱足, 但最主要的是你要有這份心力喔! 加油~老溝祝福你!
好令人敬佩的情操. 獻在這樣具有犧牲奉獻精神的人不多了. 拿磚頭照片+1
呵~~~別這麼說爾根兄, 微不足道, 好事大家做, 望可拋磚引玉~~~拿磚頭那個有點土~~哈哈哈
小夫 你這精神真是讓我敬佩呀! 原來你跑去閉關當義工去了 我想閉關五天之後 讓你獲得許多的法喜齁 ^^
對呀廚娘, 五天的生活真的非常充實自在, 如果還有時間, 我倒真的還想繼續待呢! 而且素食真的超好吃的說. 跟妳的一樣好粗喔!
Hello 史提夫 我之前有在你的留言板留過言,但是發現你的留言板都被廣告給佔滿了! 我想你大概很難看的到我的那篇,所以就轉而留在這邊了:) 我是你板上淺水已久的讀者 偶然經過看到你的英語教學文章, 每一篇都充滿樂趣又非常的實用,講解也都很精闢 現在你的blog已經成為我學習英文的管道之一 三不五時我就會上來看看, 甚至把覺得特別實用的印下來自習, 想說你這麼努力在經營你的部落格, 一定要來給你加油鼓勵讚美跟感謝一下 期待你在未來的每一篇發文,加油加油:)
你好Aichia, 謝謝你喜歡我的格, 留言板我比較少去看和維護, 都麻一段時間去清一次草, 看一下~sorry, 下次有啥想聊的想討論的, 直接到文章這裡來比較快~~~英文真的要好好用心學以及維護, 謝謝你的護持喔, 我也會努力帶給大家更多的好料和你們分享喔!
推~~ 我都不知道法鼓山在三峽有分院呢 史堤夫這五天過得真的很充實 心靈上的收穫不少,真的..只要有心 哪裡都可以找到義工或志工的工作
有哇有哇魯魯, 去年才成立的, 在那裡的義工生活超充實的, 有空魯魯也可以去那裡走一走, 很棒很美的喔!
Steve~真的很佩服你!! 我想你這五天一定有一些思考對吧?或許是個種子喔^^ 推!
是呀珍妮, 這幾天每天都記著法師所說的"把握因緣"四個字, 對我太受益了, 因為有好緣真的要好好把握, 不然一下子它溜走了, 就沒有機會讓自己成長了~~~有空珍妮老師也可以去道場走一走感受一下喔!
大推! 小夫~你真有慈悲的心...讚!當義工真的可結善緣,又可鍛鍊一下體力,真是一舉兩得呀! 最重要的還是可以讓自己的心靈淨化一下...充充電(寺廟裡的磁場超好的呀!)^&^
沒錯沒錯大美女, 真的~心靈成長很重要, 要偶爾回來充一下電, 不然都被俗世的塵緣所擾, 喜歡正信道場的那種舒服的磁場, 每天真的都超級開心的說!
閉關了五天 我想小夫哥應該有了新的體悟 那張挑磚頭的照片幫你按讚~~
謝謝春妹~~下次如果有機會一起去做~~妳挑磚頭時小夫哥幫妳拍~~~嘻嘻
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法鼓山在三峽有分院,我都不知道說, "把握姻緣" 曾有師父也這麼對我說過 現在有空都會去當一日義工 大部分都是去埔里 通常在週末 雖然很累 但心裡是開心的
有啊~~但是去年才開幕的, 有小法鼓之稱喔Irene, 而且一整個就是莊嚴清靜. 我好喜歡這裡喔, 它變成了我心靈故鄉, 有空我會多回來走走. 你是去埔里的德華寺嗎? 哇~妳也真的好有心喔, 每週回來一次, 讓心靈充個電是個好主意說! 是呀~做義工雖累, 但心裡卻是舒坦的~~
哇!!小夫大哥啊!! 做了一件好友意義的事歐^^ 小弟也該向你學習一下摟!!! 只是阿~ 工作時怎拍照啊???? 教法師幫你拍嗎? 哈哈!!
是呀~好事大家一起做, 小弟有空時也可以看家附近有沒有需要志工的地方, 比如說醫院呀, 或者是資源回收...等~~工作時有師兄拍的, 其它風景都是趁休息時拍的. 加油~要用功喔小弟.
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好喜歡這樣寧靜的感覺! 卸下"世俗的頭銜"回歸於人的本位. 我們只是很普通的人,互相珍惜人與人相處的緣分. 推文!!!
真的~~人身難得, 真的要好好利用做人的機會去做有意義的事! 天南寺的感覺真的很棒!
Buddy,你~~你~~你~~~你真的太不簡單了! 上次你還說找個機會去當義工, 沒想到,你馬上付諸行動了!! 那句"坐而言,不如起而行"的英文怎樣講啊!! 這樣實在感到很汗顏跟你稱兄道弟, 因為你很偉大ㄟ!!
別這麼說啦~慶蘇! 你有時間可以一起參加說~你也是個好人一個, 佛心來著! "坐而言不如起而行"的英文是~~"Actions speak louder than words"~~這沒啥大呀慶蘇, 做自己該做的!
很佩服耶..尤其是年紀輕輕的你...(按個讚^^) 蘿拉推一個
別這麼說蘿拉, 只是希望大家也可以利用時間來做義工! 謝謝蘿拉的推!
是埔里靈巖山寺 也是個莊嚴清靜的地方 不是每周拉 有空的話一個月去一兩次吧 也必須要因緣合合 一開始都是當去玩 因為從高雄到南投= = 幾個月後就變得習慣去
你真的好發心耶Irene....我要好好向妳學習~~我也想去靈嚴山寺走走, 下次有空可以一起去看看!
你也去了法鼓山呀!(真替你開心^-^)以前聖嚴還在世的時候~培敏就常陪爸媽去,最早期,法 鼓山是位於靠近北投關渡的大度路大業路口那一帶,當時因為離家近,媽媽那時身體也比較硬 朗,我們3個女兒就很常陪愛當義工的媽媽待上一整天喔^-^確實是該常讓內心淨化淨化!
是呀大美女. 那裡好清靜, 很舒服, 你爸媽和妳都好有福報喔, 都和正信的佛法有緣, 我爸媽就沒有當義工的心, 所以最多帶他們去寺裡走走就很不錯了! 下回有機會一起去走走呀!
閎麻推11~~ 很棒的體驗捏~~ 淨化自已的好機會
是呀麻媽~~有空可以去法鼓山的道場走一走喔!
推12 小夫好有心喔!! 原來還可以這樣當義工, 若有機會我也想來盡盡心力
好呀好呀Irene...義工就是要大家一起來做, 善的力量很大, 災難的世界就是需要善的力量來化解!
13推 小夫真是好一個愛心青年最佳代表耶.... 言贊!!
別這麼說~~應該要做的, 而且好的東西就需要大家一同來做!
Hi Steve: You are a great peoson indeed. your sharing must encourage us a lot. "Cherish the good causeS" will keep in my mind from time to time. I will make it become action. best wishes. ciya
Dear Ciya....thank you but I'm not a good guy, I'm trying my best to be a good one. Yes...sharing good things is a blessing also. Cherish good causes always is always kept in my mind....it's really important to realize this. If Ciya have time, you can also be part of the volunteer groups.
由衷佩服小夫的奉獻精神,為了當義工還請無薪假回台,令人感動! 看你心靈獲得淨化與成長,我也很開心! 這次我只幫忙開車接送,下次也帶我去吧! 能認識你是我的榮幸與福氣~ 拿磚頭照片+1 ( 認真的男人最 MAN 啦~~ )
謝謝Steven啦, 真的, 沒有你的交通幫忙, 這個願是無法附諸實行的. 下次我也想帶你一起去呀, 希望你也有空, 一同為善效力!
推推, 真是太令人佩服了~~ ^^
別這麼說~~這是應該做的, 利益自己也助益他人.
Oh Steve, what are you talking about? You are a great guy! Take my word for it!
Oh...come on Mei, it's something that I think I must do. If everyone has a heart of gold, I believe the idea of peaceful world will not just be a dream.
小夫... 若有機會我可以去做義工嗎?? 這是很好的一個反省的機會! 你真用心的在自修...真羨慕!! 推 推.. Mei
當然啦Mei, 一起來, 有很多地方都有義工的工作喔, 自己受益也獲益他人. 沒啥認真自修啦, 就覺得這是本份事罷了. Mei也來加入吧!
推~ 我是有聽過基督教的靈修, 好像住在陽明山上的宿舍幾天, 連手跟手錶都不能戴, 完全放空的修行^^
真的喔? 那也是個很棒的修行方式說. 但妳沒有去參加呀?
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繼續努力 Aguo 看到你這一篇文章 有很大啟發及感動 是啊!我們生活在幸福地方 能可以幫到人 令身邊既人得到開心及快樂 是最大欣慰 這一回憶是永遠永遠 學懂這一份感恩之心 當自己遇到什麼困難事時候 也只是微不足道既事 因為還有更多既人還遇到更困難及際遇不好既事 是需要大家出一份努力及愛心 支持你~~加油啊 Aguo
說得真好耶雪利~人真的要有一份感恩之心, 而且需要無私去奉獻~~~與其說對社會有所貢獻啦, 倒不如說是為自己的心靈有所成長.
Your article on volunteering at the Bhuddist Monastery was very motivating.. I agree with what you mentioned. Life is limited...and we should do good deeds as much as possible. Well said and very well written!!!
Thanks Paul for your comment. Yeah...everyone shall learn how to give unselfishly and not alway take from others. True taht life is limited...so, try our best to do things meaningful in our short period of life.
史帝夫真是有為青年 有很好人生觀態度 幫你拍拍手!
別這麼說啦Uio, 就只是發一份心念罷了! 有空妳也可以一起來喔!
原來~三峽也有"天南寺"~ 謝謝史提夫你的分享喔~~~ Judy推~~~~
有哇~而且很有莊嚴殊聖說!
推推 史提夫好有心 該向你學習 也去身體力行 而不是老掛在嘴邊 IRENE
是呀Irene...坐而言不如起而行, 一起為這個社會多做點事總是好的. 加油喔~
steven你真的是很偉大耶,願意在工作之餘,來幫助這些慈善團體,可惜 沒讚可以按,不然就給你一個讚XD,加油摟
三八Frank, 哪裡偉大了, 就是發心去做些覺得有意義的事罷了. 你也可以一同參與喔~~
哇…你真的是有善心的人事…也懂得自我修練…實在不錯唷!^^
改天找你去金山的法鼓山本會或三峽的天南寺外拍如何?
史提夫你真的不簡單耶!!!我好慚愧喔!! 你不會以後真的跑去出家了吧?? 偶爾停下腳步沉澱一下自己,確實是現代人的課題之ㄧ!!
唉喔我說judy, 什麼慚不慚愧呀, 啊還不就是有空舉手之勞罷了. 出家呀? 我有想過耶~如果因緣俱足, 會考慮喔! 沒錯~~煩亂的生活的確需要偶爾給自己一些時間停下腳步沈澱一番!
最佩服義工了, 推~~~~
是呀~~~有空一同參與喔!
小夫~~~~~行善要及時 我就是這樣想的,你知道我輔導的小朋友,反應超慢的,可是當她會了一點點加法,我就會很開心 這就是當志工的歡喜心喔
對呀~~行善真的要及時. 我也好佩服像愛咪這樣細心又貼心和耐心的志工媽媽了! 妳最棒了!
小夫最近又沒消沒息了(指PO新文)>.< 不過一想到距離我們的烹飪美食聚會只剩下2周,我就很開心! 不曉得,你打算煮甚麼好料?真的很令人期待喔!
最近有點忙~~但剛PO了喔~~妳騎馬的英姿真的好美喔! 做啥好料的呀? 嘻~~到時你們就豬道了~~是秘密喔!
豎起大拇指... 做義工洗滌心靈 如果每個年輕人都有這份心 這個社會定會更祥和
嗯~沒錯~~希望越來越多的人都有這念心.
親愛的小夫 您太令人感動:)) 不可思議禪定淨心之舉敬佩啊 貞心也來把握因緣 昨看新聞報導有拍到你的畫面 今夜特別開機來看你啊^^ 近日也不開電腦我 該向你學習 百樂百福
拍到"我"方畫面? 是啥畫面呀? 貞最好嗎?
小夫你在華航上班嗎 如是就沒錯 雖然鏡頭一下下我有看到你 我近日不愛玩無名 祝福你順心順意
呵~~我不在華航耶小貞~~~妳看到誰啦? 嘻~~
推推 我想 小夫當完義工 不管是身心靈 應該是滿載而歸吧 突然讓我想到 佛光山說^^
是呀~~在寺院裡做義工有種完全將世俗拋在腦後的舒暢感~~~佛光山? 為何讓你突然想到佛光山呢? 你在佛光山當過義工呀?
這奉獻的精神真是令人太敬佩啦 凡人的貪念實在是太多了 再這裡放下身段大家都一樣 心裡也能獲得了平靜 像我這種人真該好好去修行反省一下才是 推+1
呵~~shiny說得是, 人在煩惱充斥的生活裡, 真的需要偶爾放下身段地去付出, 才能有所沈澱與體悟!
大大推一下, 這麼優秀的年青人真是難得, 你在這裡所做的努力也造福了許多人,包括我哦!第一次來就把這個blog加入我的最愛,想說要常上來進修英文才是.....總之,來到這裡非常開心.
感謝Lalahey...有空要常來喔!
Dear Steve, This time I was moved by this article that you devoted your recess to the monastery and promoted the ideas of careless life. Since I've been working on the translation of Buddhist materials, I found some of the terms you applied to express the Buddhist nouns were not as precise as they were supposed to be. Let me rise a few discussions to state the difference between. 1.It's better to call 三寶 "Triple Gem" rather than "Three Jewelries", and 佛 is called "Buddha", 法"Dharma",僧"Sangha",and each first letter of the words should be capitalized. "Buddha" here particularly means Sakyamuni Buddha.
Thank you for the sharing Jeff....wow, your English command is so good. Well, your translation is correct. But the way I translated was consulted with they way DDM translated in most of their literatures. But still thank you for the sharing.
(續) 2.In most of the Buddhist ceremonies, 回向 would be placed at the very end, and it aims to share all we have with all sentient beings. Thus we'll use "Transfering Merits" to indicate 回 向 instead of "dedication". Dedication might be close to "Offering"(供養) during any ceremony. 3. 因緣 is the most core conception of Buddhism that enlightened Buddha. "Cause" may only reveal "因", but if you tend to mean 因緣, the most accurate usage is "Causes and Conditions".
Thank you for the sharing Jeff. As for the word, 回向, I followed 佛法翻譯院's way of translation as well as 因緣. I think both of us are correct, and yours can be very much proper. Thank you Jeff.
Dear Steve, I introduce myself first. My name is Adrian and currently work as an English teacher. Soon I will go to Hong Kong to get trained as a flight attendent in Dragonair.I accidentally found your blog. I enjoy your articles very much. I just wanna praise you . You are so great and show others a lot of meaningful articles. Steve, I give you my thumbs-up.
Hey Adrain, thank you for your praise and your liking to my blog. Wow, very nice to meet you here. How's your life in HK? Everything alright?
there is a saying which I think in Chinese (correct me if i were wrong); if you want to be happy for an hour, take a nap if you want to be happy for a day, go fishing if you want to be happy for a month, get married if you want to be happy for a year, win the lottery if you want to be happy forever, help someone else.